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Elopements and micro weddings are a heartfelt, intentional alternative to large, high‑pressure weddings, ideal for couples who value intimacy, flexibility, and financial wisdom. They are not a lesser version of a big wedding; they offer a different richness: presence, calm, and genuine connection. An elopement is usually a very small ceremony with just the couple and a few witnesses, centered on their vows and the moment they become married. A micro wedding keeps the familiar structure of ceremony and reception but with fewer than 50 guests, making the day more manageable without losing the feeling of a real wedding. At Divine Marriage Union, both formats can be spiritual or secular, with personalized vows, scripture or poetry, and rituals that reflect each couple. Couples are drawn to these smaller celebrations because they make it easier to stay emotionally present and to experience the day as a sacred turning point rather than a performance. Many feel more relaxed and more themselves when they are not managing a crowd, a tight timeline, and complex logistics, and the smaller guest list opens doors to unique venues like historic squares, cozy restaurants, gardens, waterfront spots, or meaningful destinations. Finances are another key reason. Traditional weddings are expensive largely because of feeding and seating a big group, renting a large venue, and extensive décor. Reducing the guest count cuts those costs and allows couples to invest in what matters most, from photography and flowers to a honeymoon or even a down payment. Many venues and vendors now offer streamlined elopement and micro‑wedding packages that simplify planning. There are trade‑offs. The biggest concern is that family and close friends may feel left out of an important milestone, especially if they imagined a big celebration for years. Couples who always dreamed of a large wedding might later wonder what that experience would have been like, or fear missing the energy of a big crowd and the chance to gather everyone at once. Honest conversations together about what you each truly want from the day help prevent regret and keep the choice aligned with your values and capacity. Explaining the decision to family is often the most tender part. Sharing the news first with the closest people in person or over a heartfelt call, and using “we” language, keeps the focus on your unity and values such as peace, intimacy, financial stewardship, or mental health. It helps to describe what you are choosing, not just what you are declining: a meaningful ceremony, a blessing or prayer, beautiful photos, and a small meal or reception, so loved ones can see this as a real wedding rather than a shortcut. Offering alternatives, like a later celebration or inviting them into dress shopping, letter writing, or watching your wedding video together, can soften disappointment. At Divine Marriage Union, the heart of the work is helping couples create ceremonies that reflect their story, faith, and vision, whether in front of two witnesses in a garden or fifty loved ones in a charming venue. Elopements and micro weddings are not lesser weddings but a deeply intentional way to say yes, and when chosen thoughtfully and communicated with grace, they honor both your relationship and the people who love you.

Every so often, people ask me how I came up with the name Divine Marriage Union. The truth is it came from both my heart and my purpose. It’s more than just a business name. It’s a reflection of what I believe marriage truly represents and the sacred joy I feel every time two souls come together in love. The Heart of “Divine” The word Divine can mean different things depending on who you ask. For some, it represents God’s presence, a sacred energy that blesses and guides our most meaningful moments. For others, it’s that indescribable feeling when everything simply clicks, when love, timing, and connection align so perfectly that it feels as though it was meant to be. To me, Divine speaks to that higher essence of love, the kind that feels purposeful and full of grace, no matter how you define it. It’s the unseen force that draws two people together and gives their union depth, meaning, and a sense of destiny. The Sacred Commitment of Marriage Marriage, at its core, is one of the most profound commitments two people can make. It’s not just an event or a legal status—it’s a living, evolving journey. I’ve witnessed couples laugh uncontrollably, shed tears of joy, and hold hands with quiet confidence as they step into this shared promise. Every ceremony reminds me how universal and unique love is at the same time. It’s both personal and communal, sacred and beautifully human. It’s the space where two lives interlace and become one shared story. The Power of Union The word Union embodies the beauty of togetherness. It’s not about losing your individuality. It’s about merging hearts, families, and dreams into something stronger. A true union celebrates balance and partnership. It’s about learning to dance in rhythm, to give and to receive, to hold space for one another’s growth. That’s the essence of what I strive to honor in every wedding I officiate: the joy and strength that come from love united with intention and authenticity. Why I Chose the Name When I created Divine Marriage Union, I wanted a name that captures both the sacred and the soulful, the spiritual and the human. Whether you see the word Divine as the presence of something higher or as the pure beauty that exists within love itself, this name reflects my purpose: To honor every couple’s unique story and celebrate love in its purest, truest form. Because love, when it’s genuine, wholehearted, and guided by intention, is nothing short of divine.
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